Toxic Mother-Daughter Drama

Toxic Mother-Daughter Drama

I have to vent about what happened today with the biological mother and her daughter. This woman is incredibly spiteful and always tries to make people like her by badmouthing me behind my back. Today, she and her daughter supposedly visited my town and bragged about it on Facebook. It’s not the first time she has done this in an attempt to cause problems for me in the area. She kicked us off her now ex-husband’s property back in 1992 because we called her out on her spending issues, but we’ve been living in Hartsville since 1993 and know a lot of people here. The biological mother likes to call our town a “cult town” and claims she would never live here, but no one would want her anyway because people don’t take any crap from anyone around here. It’s not a cult, just a small town that has a lot of Coker College students from all over the world attending. Now, getting back to the issue with the biological mother and her daughter visiting my area. It only takes her 51 minutes to drive 46 miles from her house to the cemetery where her daughter is buried, but apparently, she didn’t care enough to visit until now. But it gets worse – instead of avoiding any potential issues, she decided to take a route that goes directly through my town. She’s trying to provoke me into some kind of reaction by claiming I’m stalking or harassing them, but I’m not falling for it. She could have easily gone to the Walmart in Darlington instead, but she chose to come straight to my town. This is borderline harassment. Not only that, they went to a local diner right in the center of town as well. The only reason I ever go to Camden (in Kershaw County) is when I have to go to the sheriff’s office or when I take my husband to the VA hospital – and even then, we take the back roads. I’ve stopped at a dollar store a few times on my way home from Columbia, but I don’t shop in Camden because I haven’t lost anything there. When all of this is over, my GPS records from my phone and vehicles will show how many times I’ve actually been in that area versus how many times their phones pinged the cell towers – they can’t hide that information when it’s requested by an attorney. And to top it all off, she drove right by my house – what would you call that? I call it Stalking and harassment. My posts from Facebook are included I never once time stated anything about trespass more lies they like to tell or boast about their little trip that never happened. In the bottom photo, LeLe her daughter had the nerve to love my Facebook post and bragged about it on Facebook but wouldn’t you call this harassment?

As I prepare to post my response on Facebook to their posts, I am reminded of the ongoing issue I have had with my biological mother. She has always been two-faced and manipulative towards me, which is why I stopped talking to her years ago. However, she and her daughter continue to stalk me on social media platforms like Facebook and my website. They are relentless and seem to take pleasure in causing drama. Despite this, I refuse to hide my posts because they are visible to everyone, including those who may try to use them against me. It’s almost comical how paranoid they are, thinking that their friends are monitoring my every move online. Little do they know that their actions can be traced through phone records and online activity. This behavior from the biological mother is nothing new; she has a long history of harassing me, even going as far as taking photos of us in public walking up to us in public places, and snapping photos of minor children scaring them and this was without our permission. And if she ever gave you something, there was always a catch – she would later deny ever giving it to you. It’s no wonder why I see her as an Indian Giver or simply put, a liar. Notice below where LeLe the biological mother’s daughter went on my Facebook and LOVED the comment I shared. Now don’t you think that is harassment? Well, it is actually I have proof of them coming to my Facebook and Website with the 2 online tracers and now have where she did this. 

Back in 1999-2000, my biological mother requested for me to return the Christmas tree she had given me along with other items. I didn’t want to deal with her, so I asked a friend to pick up the stuff and we took photos of everything being loaded into their car as proof. My biological mother still claims that I kept her things, but I have printed photos from that day as evidence. This is just one example of how I have learned to document everything when it comes to her, even if she seems harmless – you can never underestimate someone like her. I’ve installed cameras around my house because every time she came over, she would lie about what happened or what was said. I never trusted her and was always on guard, no matter how nice she seemed at one moment. Ultimately, I cut off all contact with her because I didn’t want anything to do with her and many issues. People may say that I’ll regret not having her in my life, but for me, it’s a blessing that she’s not involved because she only causes chaos and trouble for others in my family. On the other hand, some people tell me that cutting her out of my life makes me a better person. Regardless of these opinions, I have always been a giving & caring person but with this whole situation with the biological mother & her daughter nah I had to cut them out of our lives, and it was the best decision I could make even my therapist told me I should have never allowed her back into my life because I was better off without her in it. 

This was posted right before I finished writing my blog post just wanted to share that this is what they do.

Yesterday, I shared my thoughts on Facebook to clear up any confusion about the TRESPASS accusation. It’s clear that she needs help; her thinking is not normal. Please stop spreading rumors and trying to gain the attention you are a 73-year-old woman acting like a two-year-old. There are only two people in this world that I hate and would never help – the woman who murdered my sister and my biological mother. Sadly, my biological mother falls into the same category as the woman who took my sister’s life. I do not go out of my way to bother her; I even avoid going to her area, not because I am scared but because she is not worth my time or energy. Unlike them, I don’t seek out problems. My biological mother has a daughter with a criminal record, and she encourages her to cause trouble since it won’t reflect on her. This behavior goes back to when my sister was alive, so it’s nothing new. Do I care if I have a relationship with her daughter? Absolutely not. She always smelled of cigarettes, weed, or just plain uncleanliness. Plus, she has been caught trying to steal from our house on camera. Although they deny it ever happened, the video footage doesn’t lie. We later found out that she had a shoplifting charge in 2022, which her mother kept quiet. If I had known, I would never have allowed any of them back into our home.

I’m certain there will be some responses from those with less intelligence to this blog post, but frankly, I couldn’t care less. The truth is the truth. To Be Continued!

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