Threatened for Truth

Threatened for Truth

I have something important to share with my readers. The egg donor has been threatening me with legal action for telling the truth about my life, from childhood to adulthood. She didn’t like me sharing details about her multiple marriages, troublesome adult children, her grandson, her daughter’s criminal behavior, and slanderous comments towards my minor grandchildren, and my children. The police were even involved when she and her daughter made inappropriate comments about my minor grandchildren on social media. She also went as far as editing personal photos of mine, threatening physical harm through her daughter’s associates, and blackmailing me for a trike that I’ve had since I was 11 years old (which she falsely claimed was stolen from her). Recently, she accused me of attempting to access her bank account multiple times, but anyone with common sense knows that banks have tracers on all accounts. It’s ironic because she has complained in the past about her husband overspending and their accounts being hacked. She also made false claims that I called her which is completely false pull phone records of my number and no one here’s number will appear on that record. As for the 8MM film well I have a victim advocate who has seen this film so I’m not scared to show a judge either.  I can prove that her accusations against me are false.

Today, I decided to seek legal counsel after being threatened with a lawsuit by someone claiming that my Facebook posts and website content were causing harm to them. After explaining the situation and providing details about our back-and-forth interactions, my attorney gave me some valuable advice. He asked about the authenticity of an 8MM film that I had mentioned, which is concerning as it could potentially be considered child pornography. He also clarified that verbal statements, such as slander, cannot be sued for and defamation would require solid evidence of damage done to one’s reputation. On top of this ongoing legal battle, the other party was blackmailing me on Facebook about the Trike that I’ve had since I was eleven years old. Despite both parties engaging in similar levels of online activity, both will face consequences for it. However, I have not deleted any posts and have instead hidden them from public view, knowing that they may be useful in court. The other party has created multiple fake accounts and attempted to delete their original posts, but my attorney reassured me that all the information can still be accessed through backup servers. Now that I have legal representation, my attorney has advised me to bring any court papers directly to him. This week, I will be submitting all relevant documents so that he can have them on file and ready. For the record, it is not illegal to write about personal life stories or experiences on social media as long as no identifying information is shared. Just like with my stepfather SA me, I have all my therapy reports when I went and got help for SA so enlighten me about damaging his reputation at least he owned what he did to me she hasn’t she is still calling me a liar 43 years later. It is also illegal to “dox” someone by repeatedly sharing their personal address information online; fortunately, I have screenshots of these instances and more dating back to 2006 when the other party first began threatening me via email and Myspace messages. Additionally, the other party has made hurtful comments about my minor grandchildren who are not involved in this dispute at all.

Writing about my experience with SA not only helps me but also helps others who have gone through the same thing. No one should ever be shamed for being a victim of something they couldn’t control. I continue to face victim shaming for speaking out about what happened to me, but during therapy, I learned that it wasn’t my fault. It took years for me to understand that my stepfather was the problem, not me. His actions made me feel unworthy and broken on the inside. Even after 43 years, the biological mother refuses to take responsibility for his abuse and instead calls me a liar, tarnishing his reputation. But when we were on good terms, she acknowledged that he did it and even said she was glad he owned what he did to me. I will never understand how people can shame those who have been through such traumatic experiences that are usually reserved for adults. Despite everything, I have moved forward in life. But I cannot wrap my head around how a mother could allow such things to happen to their child or children; it also happened to my sister Jaime twice. My hope is that by sharing my story, at least one person will realize that what happened to them was not their fault, and maybe that will bring some healing. The peace I gained from cutting them out of my life again is so much nicer. I had forgotten how nice it was until I cut them off but if you hear it from them they claim it was all money is why they cut me off. But that can’t be further from the truth, see the biological mother does this she tells people it was money that is what she has done in the past she would tell people that to try and ruin me and make me look like I never had money and that is so far from the truth I could prove it then and now.  My biological mother has always been obsessed with money and constantly brags about how much she has given me. However, the truth is that in 2019-2020, she only gave me a total of $23,000 for my car payoff, bankruptcy payoff, and roof repair. Then in 2020, she took out a loan of $5000 on our behalf to put towards a down payment on our new house I paid on all but the last $1000 because she refinanced her house and gave me a Christmas card with $100 with a note in the card loan paid in full. I have proof of making monthly payments of $200 through PayPal and Cash App, except for one instance where I paid her in cash which she spent at Walmart. Other than those instances, there has been no other financial help from her or any member of my family. I believe she is trying to cover up her own spending habits by blaming others, as she has always done. I have a witness who can attest to this behavior from her throughout my adult life.

Below is a snippet of 2006 out of the daughter and her man at the time this was all on MySpace. 

To Be Continued!

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