On Going Issues Are Still Continuing

On Going Issues Are Still Continuing

Have you ever had family members who just love to attack, harass, bully, call you vulgar & animal names? I’m surely not the only one living this nightmare with these people. Like I said in my other post you have to go back and read where all this started to understand where I’m at with this whole situation. I was just telling my husband tonight I wish I could go back in time I would have NEVER opened my door to these people. I went 12 years and didn’t have anything to do with her of course we encountered her daughter and her a few times and had to have law enforcement 2 times at the flea market but that was handled. Fast forward from 2013 to the present, I always kept in the back of my mind what she has done to me over the years to not get close to her because she is like a poisonous snake she stricks with spreading lies about me and my family. My family has literally been slandered to no end. I want to explain a little something about my family to show my family has never had issues with law enforcement. I married my current husband in 1991 and my daughters were 1-2 years old so they were babies still. He raised my daughters as if they were his own children. We taught our children the right way to live and how you have to work to get through life if you ever want to have nice things in life. Our daughters graduated early from high school and went on to go to college and obtain degrees. Neither one of my daughters has ever been fired from a job they always have amazing references if they change jobs to become better than where they were. Both of our children own their homes, cars, and bills without our help. I have never had to raise my grandchildren because my daughters are awesome mothers to their children that is how they were raised with morals. 

At least every few days I get reminded by these Ex-family members of how much my deceased sister, stepfather, and grandparents would be so terribly mad at me for what I’m supposedly doing to them?! Now my sister Jaime loved her family but she had the same issues as I do now. But my sister tried to keep the family together even in the worst times. I never knocked her for trying but there are some people and things you just can’t change. But to post saying the horrible things she and her mother have done and turn around to post something religious is mentally not right. I believe my faith is stronger than theirs at this point because I know my sister (Jaime) and my (Grandparents) loved me and they can’t ever take that away from me but will have to answer to the Good Lord one day for the evil and wicked things they said. My sister lived in another state and would drive to my house and stay because she knew she was always welcome at my house. I have letters from her showing she loved me and photos of her and me. So the amount of hate being slung to try and hurt me won’t hurt me because I know in my heart my sister loved me 200%. As for my grandparents, they loved me very much they never came to South Carolina to visit because they didn’t like the birth mother’s husband who was my stepfather. But it never meant my grandparents didn’t love me. I went and stayed with my grandparents in Omaha, Nebraska for a little while my grandma had brain tumors and was paralyzed on the whole left side so she needed a lot of care. I went to school there and would help my grandpa with my grandma. There were times he would sleep through her yelling for him and I would get up and help her and talk to her. But the birth mother has a whole other story she tells people I was horrible and was out of control and all kinds of things. But I was a teenager going to school being up most of the night to help grandma because grandpa would go to sleep and he slept hard and would sleep through her yelling I couldn’t but that would make for me being a typical ill teenager with little sleep.  My grandparents I loved them dearly they would never judge me or hate me my faith in them is too strong to allow others to take that from me. 

I want to talk about why I don’t go to church. I literally as a child had it shoved down my throat and that was something I never did to my children I allowed them to have their own faith and if they wanted to go to church it was their choice. When you shove your own religious beliefs on your children it doesn’t always turn out good. When parents push religion on their children it confuses them to an extent one month you are Baptist the next month you are Methodist or they put you in a The Seventh-day Adventist Church was a Christian academy and you ask did I do good NO I was confused and everything including math, reading, and there were worshiping every month you had to learn the Christian pledge, they had their own flag you had to learn it also I was so screwed up with religion sometimes I didn’t know what was up or down with it. I was always told if I lied I would burn in the depths of HELL. All children tell little lies it is the process of growing up and learning right from wrong. Have you ever gone to a church where you literally were picked at and felt not welcomed? Well, the birth mother always tried to act like she was well-to-do in life and always wanted to be something she knew she would never be or have in life. She started going to a church in Florence, South Carolina where 99.9% of doctors, lawyers, and judges went to this church and we were considered middle class, not HIGH class.  When we would go to Sunday school the children were mean as HELL and would say horrible things they would talk about our clothing, shoes, hair whatever they could to degrade you they did. If that wasn’t bad enough the birth mother put me in a brownies group at that same church with the same horrible children to pick on me. So I was picked on repeatedly and it got worse because then the birth mother had my hair cut short like a boy so that really set it off I will never forget what I had to deal with. But we went to the church camp and many kids went to that that weren’t from that church and that was great no issues. 

My point on this is how can a person proclaim they are a Christian and living by the word of the Lord all while preaching pure hate towards others. I want to share some things because I have researched and come across the definition of what a Christian is and a few commandments.