False Accusations

False Accusations

I would like to address the false accusations made by the biological mother, which have been brought to my attention once again. She has claimed that while helping her, I had access to her personal information. However, this is completely untrue. The biological mother alleges that I had access to her social security number and bank account information, but I have never been given this information nor have I ever had access to either. In fact, years ago she wrote my social security number on her own social security card along with other family members, claiming it was for emergency purposes in case something happened to me. Now she goes on to make claims that this is how it led to me supposedly harassing and stalking her. However, she continues to make false claims that I possess her personal information, even though the bank or credit union has informed her otherwise. As a result, I have initiated my communications with my attorney about a civil class action lawsuit against her for defamation. Justice will be served for her lies and attempts to harm my reputation.

Since the first time I spoke to the biological mother in June of 2013, she has consistently claimed that her husband had a spending problem. She has admitted that her husband also struggled with overspending, like her habit of compulsive online purchases and shopping from TV advertisements. She also mentioned being frustrated with him opening credit cards under her name, which led to frequent overdrafts in their bank accounts. But it doesn’t end there; even her 40-year-old daughter and grandson have bank cards and the biological mother constantly gripes about them spending money that isn’t there. It’s absurd how far she is willing to go with false accusations, especially when it could result in a serious felony charge for me. However, Although her accusations are meant to scare me, I am not afraid. I know that they did not originate from me and my lawyer is handling the situation with precision. We have evidence to prove her claims are false, and he has informed me that we can file a civil lawsuit against her for attempting to ruin my life with these lies. She claims her account was hacked five times, but we will be requesting records from all of her banking institutions during her time in Kershaw. This should reveal a pattern of excessive spending, overdrafts, online purchases, and being scammed – which she frequently complained about and cost her financially.

She accused me of manipulating and lying to get money from her, but there was never any money flow or need for it. Her deceased ex-husband’s social security check was not enough for her to live on, despite complaining about it. Even her current husband’s social security was not enough, so they both had to work. Meanwhile, my family has a comfortable income from my husband’s VA benefits, social security, and my job. We have no need for anyone else’s money flow never needed anyone else’s money flow. Yet she continues to make false claims and deflect the blame onto anyone but herself for her spending issues. This is not new behavior from the biological mother she is like a broken record she keeps repeating lies.

Despite my biological mother’s denial and attempts to discredit me on social media, I stand by my truth. I disclosed the sexual abuse I experienced by my stepfather as a child to Pee Dee Mental Health, but nothing was done because he had a successful business that would have been tarnished. As an adult, I went through therapy and learned that the abuse was not my fault, despite my mother repeatedly calling me a liar. My story has remained consistent throughout. If sharing my experience can help even one person, then it is worth it. If you are being abused by a family member or caregiver, please reach out to someone you trust. If they do not listen, go to a teacher or school resource officer who will help you. The person I trusted ignored my pleas for help and instead believed a so-called doctor without hearing my side of the story. To this day, she continues to shame and blame me for what her husband did to me. Despite his eventual admission and apology before taking his own life, my biological mother still refuses to hold herself accountable for allowing the abuse to occur. It is heartbreaking that she continues to blame and shame me for something a grown man did to me as a child.

TO BE CONTINUED!

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