Facebook Post From The Bio-Mother on July 17 at 5:18 PM I'm Doing a Q &A

Facebook Post From The Bio-Mother on July 17 at 5:18 PM I’m Doing a Q &A

Since all this began between May – present 2023 I have not responded to exactly what she has posted correctly so I decided since she loves to read what I’m writing I would do a Q & A to her posts. Some of the things she has posted are lies to make her look like a victim. I know all families have issues with some members in their families but the whole story hasn’t been told by the bio-mother which makes the story half told by her. On December 23, 2022, at 2AM law enforcement showed up at her home and arrested her grandson for murder. He murdered a gang member that he was friends with from that point I knew I didn’t want to ever go to her house ever again. As a matter of fact, I haven’t been to her house since Sept. 2022. There are so other pieces to this that I won’t state at the moment but she was making different comments in Oct. 2022 that really had me concerned for my own family’s safety so I never went back to her house again because I didn’t want no involvement with that issue. But from that moment on she has made different claims about me supposedly attacking them and their personal lives. So below I will put hers in RED and mine in BLUE.

((I have been dealing with extended family who is out to destroy my husband, youngest daughter, grandson, and me.. Those of you who are my friends know some of it.. And it happens more and more every day..))

The bio-mother claims I have been out to destroy her husband, daughter, grandson, and herself. Well, the funny thing about all of it is her daughter was the one that was bashing, calling names, threatening, calling people fat, calling people whales, threatening to have someone come and get me whether I was home or out and about, continued to taunt my daughter about her husband that committed suicide, made fun of my daughter’s medical conditions, harassing phone calls, started getting Kershaw, S.C. collect calls from the jail, collect calls from Florida Prison something we hadn’t been receiving but now are. If your friends know the whole story make sure that they know the WHOLE STORY because telling a half-baked lie isn’t telling the whole story. See I’m pretty sure 99% of your friends are seeing what your daughter has written because yall hide things trying to look like you are victims when in reality we were simply defending ourselves against people that were attacking us. I guess you thought it would be okay to attack my family and we just sit back and take the beat down you both were giving us! That wasn’t going to happen because you did that to me back in 2002 and I just happened to be the only one fighting back with you and your daughter it was insane then but we didn’t have social media like now so things only intensified with all the postings back and forth on social media. I will never allow anyone to run over me or my family.

((I have said I was not dealing with it anymore and then they post something so hate filled and I know it’s to get at us and human nature kicks me and I respond !! Then it’s on all over again and worse than before..))

The funny thing about this part is she couldn’t resist looking it’s like opening a present and being surprised! It’s also funny how she will say I post hate-filled things defending my family. But mine were nowhere near as hate-filled as hers and her daughter’s posts. When they write posts we are supposed to not respond or allow human nature to kick in on us and respond? See that is where she has always been one-sided about things she can do it but you better not respond or else there was always a threat behind if we reposted on replies she and her daughter would do. The way I look at it nothing ever got worse it stayed the same. It’s like a record that has a bad scratch on it and the needle gets stuck on that scratch because it can’t go anywhere that is how this whole situation is with the bio-mother. I don’t lose any sleep over any of what has happened with them.

((I think at times I should post some of what this 53 year old and her 34 year old daughter Have Posted like wishing us a “Slow Long Painful Death”, Or talking about our personal lives which everyone has just as they do..))

Now onto this crazy part she talks about my age yes I’m 53 years old and yes I have a 34-year-old daughter is there a problem with that? We have posted as much as the bio-mother and her daughter but again they think we aren’t supposed to reply to their hate, threats, lies, victim shaming, and manipulative behaviors. As for the comment she made about the Slow Long Painful Death well not really sure where she got that from maybe out of her bag of lies. The bio-mother has said worse about my family in posts but we won’t go there with that. As for your personal lives being talked about online, that was no different that you and your daughter made ours public and spewed pure hate. So again you wanted us not to tell about your lives but yall could make that make sense IT DOESN’T!

((They had mail sent to our house bc it couldn’t go to them and when I shared that mail as Returned she called the law and made a stink about the name showing and the address! Well, it’s my address and if you didn’t want your name to show on my address maybe you should never have had it sent to us!!))

The mail issue oh my WORD you made such a big deal out of it but this was something from 3 years ago when he worked with Tucker and that was taken care of then. But what is odd about this I told you to trash them because they were from 2018 and you claimed that is what you have been doing. With a big company like united healthcare, they send so much crap out till people just start trashing it. But since everything blew up you decided to go and make a post about the mail going there which truly sounded stupid the way you said it knowing this wasn’t the 1st time they sent information envelopes. But again you shared his full name on the envelope just as you did mine with my address. So we called United HealthCare and talked with them and it only took a week because they didn’t have any records of it being sent to you recently so this must have been one that was old because they claimed nothing had been sent out in almost 3 years. But hopefully, that fixed her crazy mail lady rant about it going there. Have you ever looked at Whitepages.com? Anyone that is listed on there whether your family or friends they are associated with that person so sometimes people get mail because of the association with the family member or friends it happens.

((We got stuck with a 2017 Jeep as most know and they still can’t understand how the Title works and make idiotic remarks.. when my name was on it 50/50..))

Bless your heart you got stuck with that Jeep because of the crap you pulled calling Carmax and trying to take control over the loan on the Jeep. You accused my daughter of not making two payments and when she showed proof you decided to dig deeper with Carmax. You weren’t primary at all you were a co-signer that was it! But after the continued harassment about the Jeep, my daughter said I want to let it reposed and you weren’t having that either but I should have allowed her to do just that because you have been on it about that Jeep. You have accused me of this Jeep when my name wasn’t anywhere on the contract but claimed I stuck you with that debt how? The way you acted about that Jeep and the fact that you acted like an immature 72-year-old stating it was 50/50 no it wasn’t it was the one word you could have said was “OR” but it still didn’t change the fact that on the contract my daughter was PRIMARY and you were CO-SIGNER! But again that was a lesson learned dealing with your controlling, and manipulative ways. Have you ever taken a hard look at the person you have become? You have always been one to try and control people let me explain why I mean so your small mind will understand. You think if your name is on something you have 100% say in what goes on and it doesn’t work like that. Then if you can’t control what someone is saying you start spreading lies about them so it makes you look like the victim it has happened for years with you. Even all your ex-husbands have stated that from my father on down to your current husband.

((Stopping the money flow plus the car made all the difference..))

Now onto this stupid LIE! First of all, there was NEVER ANY MONEY FLOW I mean you aren’t rich you work at the trash dump site and get SSA so please tell me again what money flow?! The only cash you have given me was Christmas 2021 $100 other than that the cashier’s check for the down payment on my house was $5000 I paid all but $1000 because on the Christmas card, we didn’t owe anything because it is paid in full. When I asked her to help 2 times with $200 for her grandson in Florida because he was trying to get some work clothes and start a new job she refused but claimed she loved his mother so very much but rejected helping her son that has never been in trouble with the law. It’s funny I believe she was covering up what she was spending on herself, her daughter, and her grandson that is in jail for murder and she used me as the scapegoat blaming me for the money usage she is doing. You ask why I say that well she did it back in 1991-1995 and I was blamed so bad she would tell her former husband she had to buy school clothes, food, pay my bills, make a house payment, and light bill but all while she was saying all this she was borrowing money and using it on other things but used me as her cover up! Her husband was so mad at me but once he figured out what she was doing he knew how shady she really was. This isn’t the first round with her on this because she has done it for years I just think I have always been a easy target for her to use. So I ask again WHAT MONEY FLOW? My husband and I make more than her and her husband in one month so why would we need money from her??? We don’t and haven’t stopped making excuses where your money flow is going “Pot”!

((They threaten to file charges over the stupidest things bc they do not get educated making them sound ridiculous..))

These charges you are talking about were warranted for filing charges. My life was literally threatened by your daughter and yes I filed a couple of reports because those threats weren’t taken lightly. The only person that isn’t educated is you and your daughter because had you been more educated your son/grandson wouldn’t have been where he is at the moment. Remember you asked me to contact the USCCA about whether or not your son/grandson was covered for shooting that boy? I have the emails back and forth between you and the emails with the lawyer but yet you say we sound ridiculous about wanting to file charges. But again it comes down to yall can do things and we aren’t supposed to say anything. The only thing that sounds ridiculous is the lies you have told about EVERYTHING!

((I have tried to explain but it falls on No Ears.. Or they just want to keep it going ..))

She hasn’t tried to explain anything to anybody she likes to talk about people and put them down but here she lives a life of lies! The bio-mother would call me complaining about her husband and daughter having a relationship and the daughter’s husband even blasted them on Facebook for the relationship. But you claim we keep things going but we simply defend ourselves something you are completely against. So as long as I have breathe in my body I will say what I want and how I feel about this whole situation you and your daughter created!

((I have to Give This Back To GOD and Stop trying to take it back .. He can deal with them!

We need Prayer please to help our family thru this and more..))

Listen I don’t have an issue with people saying that will give it back to God to handle but when these very same people use the Lord’s Name. See if you are a true believer in God you don’t use that in every post you make trying to get attention from others. Claims her church family knows what is going on but I can promise you they only see what I write not what she and her daughter write so it will always be a one-sided story. You right your family over there needs more prayers with that WHOLE SITUATION that could have been prevented had you been a better parent to your son/grandson and not allowed him to hang with all the wrong crowds. Again you failed as being a parent I mean you dumped your daughter off on everyone so you could live on the road with your former husband because you didn’t want to parent your child. That daughter was watched by so many people your friends, her cousin, her father, your friends but you still don’t take accountability for why she is the way she is it’s because of you. You blame everyone else for the things you created and made.

((She has made the wildest threats and accusations even about Ryan even claiming to call where he is to complain that the one and only call he made to her being nice was harassment Note here that they had to accept the call!! He CANNOT just make a call it has to be accepted where he calls! So no it wasn’t harassment ..))

I didn’t make an accusation I stated facts he called me after all this was going on with his grandmother and his mother before that he had not called me the whole time he has been locked up! His grandmother and mother gave him my number while he has been locked up I don’t take those calls because I didn’t want any involvement with that whole MURDER CASE! You are right I had to accept the call from the prisoner but because he called yes it was harassment he started telling me why was I bothering his mom and grandma I told him 3 times don’t call my phone again he continued letting me know that when he got out there wouldn’t be any of this okay like I said don’t call my phone again and he hung up! So he is already in for murder, and having underage girls around him now he can get harassment charges for using a phone. So then after all that I called the jailhouse and made a complaint about the situation I talked with the captain and he told me that the calls weren’t recorded in the jailhouse but are in the prison sounds really strange to me so I dug a bit more and found out last week that they are recorded and they don’t play the recordings for the public or parents, grandparents that order has to be with a judge and a lawyer. Why do I bring this part up because they stated that they heard the audio and the sheriff’s department had a good laugh about me and my family well I found out last week this never happened from the sheriff’s department because I made a trip to Kershaw Sheriffs Department to get some information about that lie.

((The only thing they seem to know how to do is Cuss, Belittle, Degrade, Harass and cause any trouble they can to anyone they get mad at.. the 53 yr old does not work a job never has and the daughter works but seems to have a lot of phone time.. I don’t care to waste any more time with those who are out to destroy those who did help them and stopped bc of their ungrateful attitudes ..))

Then you have this part where she claims we cuss, belittle, degrade, harass, etc… Now would this be because your daughter went on a full-blown rant about calling me, my daughter fat, whales, whore, cout chasing, health conditions, suicide, a victim of sexual abuse shaming, etc… So let me see you can do it and we aren’t allowed to push back because then you play the victim in this whole situation. Now onto the 53-year-old that is ME I work every day and make a paycheck and can show proof. You claim I have NEVER worked tell me again how do you know what I have done? I mean we have only been talking since July 2013 to present June 2023 are you completely up to date about my life and what I have done or haven’t done? As for my daughter, why are you concerned about her phone time on her job? I mean you work at the trash dump site and you are on your phone posting about my family and making threats about all of us so it seems to me you aren’t paying attention to your own time on your job but again its all about you can do it but no one else can! You try and control everything and when it doesn’t work you do other things to try and stir the pot. You also say we were out to destroy but in reality, yall were doing that very thing to my family but when we come out defending ourselves you both came with all the name-calling, threats, etc… The only people that have ungrateful attitudes are you and your daughter.

((I have probably close to 100 posts of them doing this over and over.. The language says it all ..

Please keep us in prayer to not fall Victim again to them.. Let them get it out of their system ..))

I will make 1000 posts on whatever I want to write about and you nor no one else can stop me from what I write it’s called Freedom of Speech. I don’t write about threats I write about facts and things that have happened to me in my life. The journey of my childhood to adulthood with how my bio-mother has done me my whole life. I don’t have anything to get out of my system but deleting you from my life forever and always.

Disclaimer: I was not compensated for this post. However, I received a free product(s) in exchange for my honest review. All opinions expressed in my review are 100% of Laurali’s Blog.