Facebook Platform and Community Standards & Ex-Family Drama

Facebook Platform and Community Standards & Ex-Family Drama

Facebook has not been following its own guidelines when it comes to bullies, bullying, harassment, threats, and using other’s photos without permission. Have you noticed if you report anything AI does oh that doesn’t go against community standards? I noticed this change in 2021 when I would report things that were very inappropriate like adult things and Facebook would come back with that doesn’t go against the community standards guidelines DO WHAT? So the more I have noticed because Facebook is run by Democrats/liberals the platform allows things like this which are disgusting to no end. As most of my readers know I have Ex-family members with whom I cut ties with post regularly on the Facebook Platform anything from threats of bodily harm, wishing I would drive my car off a short cliff, to hoping my brakes go out, and so much more. When the posts have been reported it comes back stating that the posts didn’t go against Facebook Community Standards so that leaves me scratching my head. I started doing some deep research into why this is happening. Since Facebook got rid of so many workers and replaced them with AI that only made a bigger issue you ask WHY? Well AI doesn’t pick up on things like a normal human does so it’s programmed to pick up on certain words, photos, etc… The Facebook platform has become a ground for nothing but sex, bullying, harassment, promoting drugs, etc…

Now back in the good ole days when the Facebook Platform was run by humans, things worked better and if someone was using your photos without your permission you would have to show your driver’s license to prove who you were. Now that isn’t even possible so people can defame your photos and Facebook says that doesn’t go against the community standards HOW? Because that is your intellectual property they took it from your personal Facebook page and doctored it with animal faces, drew on them, and wrote vulgar things on the photo that didn’t belong to her but she took it off my Facebook page and defaced it.  But I also want to talk about all the continued hate that she posts about me daily and hourly and thinks this is okay. But when things started going in another direction she would post about an attorney and that a judge would laugh me out of the courtroom because I have no case. Hmmm, well take a look online and see all the cases like what you are doing have gone to court and the person that was posting the threats, and harassment ended up not winning their case. There are plenty of cases look them up pretty sure that will resolve 99.9% of the harassment and threats that she posts daily. 

 After all, this went down last year in April 2023 with the bio-mother and her troubled daughter it has been nonstop with them both. 97% is her daughter the other 3% is the bio-mother. The bio-mother seems to be a wanna-be preacher/lawyer/cop I grew up with her always trying to play like she was a lawyer she would tell people she would sue them over meaningless things. I’ve considered talking to a lawyer myself about the issues she created with my name and the damages she caused with my marriage licenses, my children’s birth certificates and so much more because that damaged me and these are things that can’t be fixed or changed because she LIED. The bio-mother lied my whole life about what my legal name was even through my first marriage and my second marriage she never once told the truth but tried to cover it up when I contacted the birth records in Omaha, Nebraska told the guy all kinds of things that weren’t so he even sent me a letter and told me the things she told them I still have it. Why would someone try to cover up a legal name change before she left Omaha, Nebraska? I tell you she didn’t want my father to find me and she did a DAMN good job hiding me from him. But then she married her 4th husband whom she decided to do a so-called legal last name change to his Tadlock. Now she run the ad in the local newspaper in our area not anywhere else. Then just like that, my legal last name was wiped out WHY? It wasn’t to make me fit in with the other children that you would go on to have because you didn’t want people to know you had been married before and you didn’t want people to know that you had other children that you weren’t raising. It was always easier for her to cover a lie with another lie that had been going on my whole life. 

It’s crazy because I can’t imagine changing my children’s last names. After all, that takes their identity away! Even though my children’s bio-father was around sometimes  What gave me the right to change what last name they were born with? NONE that’s what I say! I have a different last name than my children but hey the school always called me by their last names it didn’t bother me but I didn’t destroy my children’s identity. I wasn’t the only child she had that she did this to my middle sister was given the name Jaime Louise Tadlock because she found out that most of the grandchildren were named Louise and she didn’t like my step-father’s family. So she went and changed my sister’s name to Jessica Jaime Tadlock I can put her name because she is deceased now so don’t come at me about her name. So the pattern has always been there with the bio-mother changing names and didn’t care who it hurt it was who benefited from it in the end and it was always her.  Even at my age now my social security shows I have two biological fathers YES I said 2 because she messed everything up. It shows my stepfather as my biological father and my REAL father as the stepfather I mean who does that to their own child? I know people are going to ask if can it be fixed the answer is NO it can’t be fixed what she created for me and that is very sad because even though my birth certificate shows my biological father as Daniel Edward Webster it can’t be changed in the system! There is no amount of I’m sorry that could ever change what she has done to me my whole life. 

When I was a child I would wish that my real mother would come and rescue me from the HELL I lived with her and my stepfather. I used to tell one of my friends when I was a child that I thought I was taken from my real mother.  Oh, I know the BS I’m going to hear on Facebook Platform about this but big “A” have a seat you weren’t even born much less thought about. The HELL I lived no child should ever have to grow up like that. My stepfather was not the nicest person in the world in his younger years he was one that you learned to fear. Me and my brother Jason both feared him because we were always the target of his abuse. I remember a time washing dishes and he was on the other side of the bar which was in front of the sink and the refrigerator was behind me he got mad and threw a metal flashlight and I moved real fast and it put a dent in the refrigerator and he blamed me for that. He owned his own business so we were NEVER ALLOWED ON THE HOUSE PHONE EVER! When things didn’t go his way and he felt like you were at fault he would take a belt to your BARE BUTT AND LEGS. He also molested me from the age of 8 years old till my teen years and I left home and got married to escape that continued abuse. The birth mother ignored all signs even after I told her what happened she called me a liar because she took me to the ER at that time. I hate to tell anyone when a child is molested YOU NEVER IGNORE THEM OR MAKE THEM FEEL LIKE IT WAS THEIR FAULT! I was made to feel like that my whole life and still today she clearly says never happened! The Mother of the Year award goes to the Bio-mother NOT! I think I have been a very strong woman to have gone through so much in my life to not be one that was an alcoholic, on drugs, runaway, or had taken my own life back then with everything I endured. Even back when  I was in my 30’s the therapist I went to even said she was surprised that I made it as far as I had. It took 3 years of therapy to realize what happened to me wasn’t my fault as I had been blamed my whole life for it. 

I’m going to end this here because if you don’t know the whole story go back and read my blog post. I’m a great mother to my children and a good grandmother to my grandchildren because I never wanted them to ever feel like I did growing up in such a dysfunctional family. My point about this post is all the harassment, bullying, and threats I want Facebook Platform to be held accountable for continuing to allow her to post harmful things that my grandchildren can see on Facebook Platform. I often wonder if this will ever stop and I highly doubt it because they have always been about abuse towards others when it doesn’t go in their direction. Lastly, my name isn’t the way you pronounced its Laurali. Now I could say that about your name but I wouldn’t lower myself to your level of childish games with name-calling. 

Continue tomorrow for another post.

Disclaimer: I was not compensated for this post. However, I received a free product(s) in exchange for my honest review.  All opinions expressed in my blog or review are 100% of Laurali’s Blog

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